They Don't Get Your HEART Too

What they did was wrong. What happened was not your fault. But the pain does not get to keep your heart too.

Forgiveness can feel impossible when the wound was deep, the apology never came, or the person who hurt you refuses to take responsibility. You may love Jesus and still struggle with anger, painful memories, unanswered questions, and the fear that forgiving means excusing the offense or allowing the person back into your life.

It does not.

In They Don't Get Your Heart Too, Marisol Valle speaks with biblical conviction, compassion, and the honesty of someone who has walked this difficult road herself. Through Scripture, personal experience, reflection questions, and practical guidance, she helps readers understand what forgiveness truly is and what it is not.

This book will help you:

• Tell the truth about what happened without allowing it to define you
• Release bitterness without minimizing the offense
• Understand the difference between forgiveness, reconciliation, and trust
• Establish wise, God-honoring boundaries
• Respond when painful memories and emotions return
• Stop blaming yourself for what someone else chose to do
• Seek forgiveness and make amends when you are the one who caused harm
• Surrender judgment to God and begin walking in genuine freedom

Forgiveness does not call evil good. It does not erase accountability. It does not require renewed access, restored trust, or reconciliation with an unsafe person. You can forgive someone, pray for them, and still refuse to invite them back into your home or your life.

This is not a book about remaining a victim. It is a biblical path out of bitterness, shame, self-blame, and spiritual bondage. It is an invitation to give the pain to God, protect what He has entrusted to you, and receive the freedom Jesus Christ offers.

They may have wounded you. They may have taken years, trust, safety, or innocence. But they do not get your heart too.