The Confidently Lost

Have you ever built your identity around everything except who God says you are?

If so, welcome to the crew, my friend, because that's *exactly* what I did.

For years, I searched for myself in all the places the world promised I would find freedom: relationships, self-help, spirituality, validation, achievement, sexuality, and the endless pursuit of becoming 'enough'.

But all those years later, I found myself more lost than ever, and confidently so.

The Confident Lost: Identity Crisis to Your Identity in Christ is a memoir where Bethel, a small, but colourful, ex-woman of the world, shares her deeply personal and often humorous journey through identity crisis. From New Age spirituality and witchcraft disguised as self-help, to relationship addiction, people-pleasing, religious performance, and the not-so-quiet voice of feeling unworthy, Bethel invites you into her world in hopes of giving you language for yours.

Through honesty, wit, and hard-earned wisdom, Bethel reflects on childhood experiences, growing up between cultures, chasing validation through romance, and desperately trying to answer the question many secretly wonder: "Who am I and why am I here?"

But this isn't a book written from the finish line, no, no, no.

This a story from someone who is still on the road. Someone who discovered that Jesus is far more beautiful than religion. Someone who is discovering in real time how God's love is deeper than shame. Someone who is realising that true identity isn't something we create for ourselves, but something we receive from Him.

This book is for you if you...

• Feel lost, stuck, or disconnected from who you truly are.
• Have explored New Age Spirituality, manifestation, astrology, or witchcraft in pursuit of something deeper, something true.
• Have wandered away from your faith and want to reconnect with Jesus as Lord, but also, friend and lover.
• Struggle with self-worth, relationships, validation, or people-pleasing *air hug*.
• Want an honest, relatable story rather than a polished religious success narrative.

In each chapter, you'll find personal reflections, warm biblical insights, humour in the midst of hard truths, and thought-provoking questions designed to help you examine your heart, story and journey.

The Confidently Lost wasn't created to reinforce limiting beliefs you've come into agreement with because of what the world, trauma, or circumstance has convinced you of.

The Confidently Lost was created to reassure you that sometimes getting lost (and being terribly confident about that) is the very thing to lead you home.